Howie Hayman
 
March 1, 2009 - Email Message - Mary Ellen. Hi. No worries. Actually we plan to spend the next couple weeks finishing up many projects too. This past week we were able to get rid of the car and set up a lot of our financial stuff. We also made a lot of progress on finally finishing up the English site. Akiko is working on the tech stuff for the new sites now. Anyway, yeah meet in a couple weeks when you get caught up on your work. Communicate through email from now until then. Talk to you again. Howie.

March 3, 2009 - Email Message - Dudes. Hi. I wanted to give you a bit of an update. Akiko now has a messed up tooth. We are without insurance because Kaiser turned Akiko down because she is pregnant. Seems like discrimination. Seems like things were gonna really suck but then this. The American Recovery and Reinvestment Act of 2009 contains a COBRA provision which means the previous company needs to pay most of the cost for the continuation of our benefits. Yippee. On another note, was reading stuff about the economy. Seems like the shit will really hit the fan in the next few months. Geeez. Finished up an incredibly time consuming project on the English site. Changed 250 pages in the Travel America and Travel Abroad sections. Anyway, this is a long time for all of us not to meet. Sure will be nice to get together when you return. Hopefully we can make it up to your place for the weekend as you offered. Will depend on her tooth, otherwise looks good. Send email when you can. Howie.

March 3, 2009 - Email Message - Meenakshi. Hi. I am not going to be able to make it with Akiko for dinner this weekend. Kind of a mess now. We are between insurance carriers and now Akiko is not feeling good because of a messed up tooth. Hopefully things will settle a bit over the next few weeks. Will keep you updated. Send email when you can. Howie.

March 4, 2009 - Email Message - Michael. Hi. I want to apologize but we need to cancel our appointment for tomorrow. Some new developments changed things a bit. We applied for benefits this week and were declined. We decided to go with COBRA to extend the benefits Akiko had when she was working even though the cost is incredibly expensive. We needed some forms and called the human resources department of her company and were told of news regarding COBRA. Apparently President Obama signed the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act of 2009 which contains a provision in which the government will force companies to pay for most of the COBRA costs of employees who were recently laid off. The main reason for us wanting to take action against the company was because we felt it was wrong for them to lay off Akiko and put her in the position of costly benefits even while pregnant. Now with the benefits being much more affordable, Akiko is reluctant to take action against the company as she feels the main problem has been resolved. She wants more time to think about things. This brings us to a few questions. With these new developments, how good do you think our case is? What is the statute of limitations on a case like this and will waiting make the case weaker? She was offered $500 to sign a long release stating she would not ever take action against the company which was not signed. Is there a time limit for this release? Anyway, please send email with your thoughts when you can. Talk to you again. Sincerely, Howie and Akiko.

March 5, 2009 - Email Message - Howie. As you probably know, Japanese are not confrontational or litigious. If Akiko is reluctant at this time (so close to the event) then it leads me to believe she thinks her termination was not discriminatory. Regardless, I'll answer your questions:
With these new developments, how good do you think our case is?
Without the meeting and production of documents as set forth in my previous email, I'm unable to give you an opinion.
What is the statute of limitations on a case like this and will waiting make the case weaker?
One year statute of limitations is what I would use. With respect to the events, people's memories dissipate as time goes by, documents get altered, lost, or destroyed; so to some degree waiting makes the case weaker.
As for a release, I cannot give you an opinion unless I actually meet with Akiko and view the document. Sincerely, Michael E. Moore.


March 5, 2009 - Email Message - Michael. Hi. The fact I am American though allows me to understand your thinking. I really do understand very well about Japanese not being confrontational after living and working in Japan many times. These are the main points now. Because of the developments with COBRA, now Akiko is losing only a few thousand dollars and can stay home during her pregnancy. We think it would be difficult to prove her situation is difficult as our home is paid off and we still receive income from the state and generous benefit subsidies from the company. We talked about this for awhile this morning and aside from things seeming better from a money perspective, Akiko does feel there was discrimination. This was a very emotional week for us and at one point we were thinking about going back to Japan. Then the situation with the benefits changed and we decided to continue on with the original plan and stay in this country. The conclusion is, to at least take the weekend to think about everything and make a more rational and unemotional decision next week. We will think about this over the weekend and maybe into next week a bit and then send you email with our decision. Enjoy your weekend and talk to you next week. Until then. Howie and Akiko.

March 11, 2009 - Email Message - Michael. Hi. I wanted to get back to you again about our situation. Akiko and I received email from her manager today and the company laid off three more employees. Another friend, who works for the company, comes over often for dinner and keeps us in touch with the happenings at the company. It seems like the company is pretty much getting ready to close. It might be very difficult to prove discrimination at this point with many employees being laid off. A travel company, in this economy, is going to be really hit as people view travel as a luxury item. In any event, we are going to keep records of everything as there is still a chance we could move forward with the case if other things come up or if we find out others in the company experienced discrimination. Now we are thinking about moving to Japan towards the end of the year. Anyway, please send email with any questions. Thanks. Howie and Akiko

March 11, 2009 - Email Message - Mary Ellen. Hi. I was really busy cleaning up the site and could not seem to find the time to send email. Anyway, we might be able to meet this weekend on Saturday morning but not sure. Recently Akiko really wants to sleep in. Hopefully you all enjoyed the new activities on the site. Now adding tons of new stuff and working on a new community. Anyway, send email when you guys plan to go to the bagel shop and we can try to meet. Talk to you again. Howie.

March 11, 2009 - Email Message - Miho. Hi. I was happy to get your email. Yeah, many people getting laid off these days. You can see it all over SD with all the vacant stores. Anyway, we would like to get together with you if you can find the time. Akiko and I made no set decision on moving to Japan at this point and we are still interested in the baby stuff if the offer still stands. If not too much of an imposition, maybe we could do a potluck and come up to your place for dinner one night. Please send email and let me know what you think when you can. Thanks. Howie.

March 15, 2009 - Email Message - Mary Ellen. Hi. Akiko and I went to the bagel shop anyway on Saturday in the event you guys were able to make it. Getting really crowded because of the coupons. As much as we want to, we cannot meet on Monday. We installed new Google technology on the English site this weekend and need to spend the next few days working out the bugs. Kind of difficult to explain. This was a Google beta release last year which was finalized on the 12th of this month. Basically you install script and can turn your site into an online community. This will eventually connect most of the famous sites together. It is called Friend Connect.
http://funeasyenglish.com/fun-easy-english-community-group-google-friend-connect.htm
This is something we wanted to do on the English site for years but the technology was not available. Anyway, now with the script installed, we need to focus on getting this promoted immediately. Probably going to be up very late tonight and I told Akiko we can sleep in tomorrow. Any site news on your end? We really want to get together again soon. Next weekend sounds possible. Definitely agree about being too long. Tell the kids, both of them, to hang in there a bit more. Talk to you again. Howie.


March 16, 2009 - Email Message - Mary Ellen. Hi. Akiko and I planned to put a few sites online but ran into some problems deciding on community scripts and hosting companies which would support them. Really disappointed because the plan was to put these online this week. Now with Google Friend Connect, it changed our thinking about the new sites. Instead of being stuck with an entire script on the site, Google is making it possible to add modules to get your site to do what you want. The problem is the technology if new and there is not enough modules now. Anyway, yeah we are busy but only because of our thinking. We both are feeling a push to get the sites at least online before Akiko delivers this summer. We barely go out now except for shopping and walking. We set this month to get everything online at least and then work on it a little at a time. We need to begin thinking about the move to Japan too. Anyway, things should settle and then we can all get together. Wondering if you made any progress on the site stuff. Talk to you again. Howie.

March 19, 2009 - Email Message - Mary Ellen. Hi. I think you probably already figured out we are not able to come up this weekend. This was a long week for us with most of it spent on the computer from early morning until the evening. We only went out to go shopping this week. We had set a goal to get all of our sites online this week. Now there is a total of eight sites we are working on. All of mine are typical htm sites and do not require any special scripts. The site Akiko is working on is the recipe site and she already installed about 8000 files and then ran into problems with the hosting company server possibly not supporting the files. In any event she is frustrated and there is no way I can pull her away from the computer until this is resolved. We already sent in a support ticket to the hosting company and now waiting for their answer. Either way we should be good for the bagel store next week, probably more towards the end of the week. We could really use some time out with friends. Send email when you can. Howie.

March 25, 2009 - Email Message - Jim and Linda. Hi. Akiko and I would like to offer our condolences during this difficult time. Let us know if you need anything. We are doing good and extremely busy with four new sites online. We are spending the next few weeks trying to get as much done as possible. Practically not even checking email these days. Anyway, let us know when you return and we can get together. Talk to you again. Howie and Akiko.

March 25, 2009 - Email Message - Mary Ellen. Hi. I am reading your email now. Akiko and I continue to work like crazy setting up the sites. I already made almost 200 pages on the home education site and this is only a small section of the site outline. The site should be close to 3000 pages when finished. Akiko uploaded about 8000 files to the host server and now was able to get the program to work. We talked about going out and Akiko wants to work until next week but definitely the week after next is perfect. Now we only go out for shopping and our afternoon walk. Everything is else is work. Kinda sucks but we really want to enjoy the summer and finish all the boring site stuff now. Still waiting for news on your site stuff. Anyway, tell the kids to hang in there a bit more. We will come out of hibernation soon. Send email when you can. Howie.

March 26, 2009 - Email Message - Jim. Hi. Akiko and I plan to get the taxes done next week. Gonna be busy preparing until then. The following weekend we are going to a party. Then we can meet when convenient. Talk to you again. Howie.

March 26, 2009 - Email Message - Hi. Akiko and I plan to be at the bagel shop tomorrow. Hopefully you can hang out for awhile. We needed to do tons of shopping and planned to go today put postponed until tomorrow after receiving your email. Sure will be nice to be out for a bit and relax. For Bjorn. study, study, study, study.
http://iteslj.org/v/in/
For Rigel. Put your thinking cap on. Gonna need some ideas for the new education site. Anyway, see you tomorrow. Howie and Akiko.


March 27, 2009 - Email Message - Jim. Hi. Welcome back. Akiko and I made an appointment for Tuesday to get the taxes done. Kind of went back and forth on this. The woman works at HR Block and is Japanese. This is good because Akiko can learn about the process. In addition, this year there is a lot of little stuff like being married, self employment and other things. Probably not that difficult to do but the woman is going to charge 250 dollars. Pretty ridiculous. Anyway, still not sure what to do. Really not wanting to bother you with it. Send email with your thoughts when you can. Howie.
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